"Understanding each other" is related to our tolerance to other fellow and to allow him/her to remain as a distinct self, yet be actively in relationship. It is only possible, if we have a distinct self apart from our relationship.
"Understanding" is also related to respecting each other in a relationship, I think there are very few people who could genuinely respect the other partner, specially if the partner is a female. We don't have a positive philosophy of life, Life is a kind of condenation for us, This philosophy is emerged from partly that we are historically dominated and partly from the Islam: An imported tribal religion.
If I'm coming or I'm going, It's not how I planned it
